So, I’ve put these feelings in the atmosphere…now what? Well, I’m glad you asked (at least you’re thinking about me…I jest) I AM GOING TO MAKE TIME FOR SELF!! What this means for me is time where I am the first and last topic on the agenda. Time where I will not feel guilty because I am doing something no one else wants to do. Time where I will enjoy my company and break the “nobody is thinking about LaWanda attitude.” Now, the trick to this to make sure I maintain a healthy balance; I don’t want to sway too far to either side. Yes, I am very much an introvert and I find it ironic that during those alone times I find myself focusing much of that time on others. Now, don't get me wrong, that is not so bad, but I really need to take this time for self. So my plan (Just in case you’re curious) for this year, I will paint...just because I want to see what I can create. I wil take Salsa lessons and participate in a recital and I will practice yoga. Sure, I will continue my running, spinning, and anything else that I can do to maintain my PHYSICAL WELLNESS, but the additional things are going to be things that my family/friends could do with me, but chances are they won’t…be invited…lol
Make sure you take time for self, I’ve learned that I am a better me when I have some me time.